And then there is the fight of powers about who submitted to who in his mood. But what if instead of fighting could only accompany. If instead of trying to change, samples deep respect by the other process. We really never know for certain what is best for someone. Judging processes rarely achieves that they are exceeded. Accompany, to love and to understand created a different result. And you can really enjoy to accompany the other in his State without leaving yours.
This is also necessary to marques the guideline that you also need respect about your state. That you only need company. Since the mutual company is easier to support. And accompany is also sometimes allow privacy, let solitude. Discussions generally occur because we personally take the State of the other.
It is wrong because he was angry with me or you should be happy with everything that I’ve done for her. But also generally people living their processes by their own internal heat loads, most of which do not relate directly to you. They are their perceptions, its complications and its processes. Take you it staff just leads to discussion. Respects your process and stay in the company for when the other needs your support. And also stay attentive to your needs. And respect them. That will teach your partner to also respect you. Often maleducamos others trying to us in ways that hurt us. Cede too, not to express what we want or feel, devaluing us or leave us aside, in pursuit of the other is supporting behaviors that transmit lack of respect and care towards you. Therefore stay present with your needs, not to impose them selfishly, but to also provide them with a space and, in case of being contradictory with your partner, negotiate them. Now, how to negotiate? A fundamental basis of bargaining in couple is directly related to the sense of being of the same: love.